Are women interested in sex?

The anonymity of Skypeland creates a sort of crucible in which all sorts of concerns can be explored. This includes discussions of sex and erotic material.

Under normal circumstances (at least in most cultures), women are discouraged from revealing any interest in fornication and related activities in the majority of situations (exceptions like the matriarchal culture of the Mosuo of Tibet stand out because they are so different). A lot of these barriers are weakened considerably in Skypeland however.

Studies of the so-called "pedigree error rate" (that is, the fraction of offspring that are not fathered by the husband or primary mate) in humans and other species show that infidelity by females is far more common than had been previously thought. [1] [2] [3]

In addition, it is very enlightening to compare male and female statistics on usage of internet search terms. Surpringly, half the internet searches for "sex ads", "sex chat" or "sex" are executed by females. More than half the searches (56%) for "free sex" and "teen sex" and 59% of the searches for "cyber sex" are made by females. Even more striking, 64% of the searches for "adult dating" and "adult sex" are performed by women. Although women are a minority of visitors to pornographic websites (28%), they still visit in significant numbers (9.4 million visits per month), 70% of those polled keep their online erotic activities secret and 13% admit that they access pornographic sites from work. [4] Although women have an image of being far more prim and proper than men, they are not markedly less involved than males in online prurient activities.

Women do have to be careful because there are still some that will brand them as "sluts" if they show any enthusiasm for sex that is deemed inappropriate or unseemly. For example, the shrill shrew J lobbed this charge at assorted women who frequent a Skypeland venue when she threw a tantrum in response to my suggestion that I did not trust her cyber boyfriend, the mystery man A:

[4/20/2009 7:35:05 PM] J says: I dont need to listen to drunks, desperate women who slut themselves out to any man who will come their way, or morons.

Therefore, women in Skypeland have to be cautious that they do not display an excess of licentiousness, or the wrong kind of interest in sex. Nevertheless, one can still find lots of examples of women in Skypeland who are not particularly guarded in revealing their salaciousness and libertine natures.

YL is young milkmaid from Iceland who has a voice that is so sweet that it positively drips honey. YL's pictures show a gorgeous vivacious temptress. According to YL, she packed on 45 pounds after an illness and now has eye-popping, mind-bending curves (size 8/10, 36DDD, and a very leggy 5'10". She is also a runner; is she at risk for black eyes? Is she a candidate for a kush?). Men apparently walk into walls around her. YL notices that after she passes, males who are sitting are not able to stand up, while standing males who are trying to sit down grimace in discomfort and pain.

YL is unfortunately in a sexless relationship, but clearly her libido is in overdrive. YL has a slightly outrageous side. YL taunts and teases every male within earshot (with the possible exception of dedicated homosexuals like the San Diego naked realtor J [5]). YL alleges that this performance is limited to Skypeland, but one has to wonder. She certainly seems natural when she delivers those flirty lines. Interestingly, although her male counterpart Mr. Wee Wee Hands (who admittedly engages in far more extreme behavior when he hits on both women and men) is almost universally reviled in Skypeland (and is often immediately ejected from many Skypeland venues), YL is adored by most in Skypeland.

Aussie "man's man" MM is an exception. MM talks in a calm authoritative voice, with a gentle Aussie accent. MM projects a strong, rough, tough image (similar to that of Mick Dundee) and is fiercely proud of "the lucky country". For example, MM brags relentlessly about sports Down Under*, particularly Australian Rules Football (which is not played anywhere else really, so it is a bit hard to compare). MM is convinced that Aussie athletes can beat athletes from anywhere else in the world, in spite of evidence to the contrary (for example, does anyone really believe that an Aussie footie player would turn down a contract worth tens of millions of dollars to play in the NFL?).

MM is also quite the lady's man, and has a harem of babes that come over for servicing when the "need" arises. When several Skypeland females scolded MM for this, MM recounted a story about having his heart broken by an ex-girlfriend, the love of his life. Instantly every Skypeland women listening melted, and then started to fawn over MM. I guess he was forgiven.

The flirtatious YL set her sights on MM and went a bit over the top, inviting MM to "eat the jizz out of my asshole". While many males might welcome such an offer, or take it as an encouraging sign, MM was disgusted. This has created unfortunate tensions between MM and YL, although other Skypeland regulars remain puzzled.

Another female who likes dirty talk is LM, who some have nicknamed "Stench Mouth" for her extreme assertions. LM not only encourages others like Mr. Wee Wee Hands to make outrageous leering lewd wisecracks and remarks, but has volunteered the information that she often enjoys stimulating her rectal passage by cornholing herself with the handles of ladles, spatulas, brushes and other kitchen implements. Of course, she is a Brit, so it stands to reason.

A lady who seems to get away with almost as many outrageous flirtatious statements is SN from Missouri. Perhaps because she hails from the "show me" state, SN maintains a long list of beaus, suitors, inamoratos, swains, and admirers in Skypeland who are seduced by her naughty pornographic dialogue, shocking carnal revelations and incredibly sexy photos. SN greets most semi-normal Skypeland males (which might be a bit of an oxymoron) by purring and cooing, "Hi baby. Oooh I missed you". SN tantalizes and titillates males with her recitations of her favorite sexual positions and lewd practices, including rimming and ultralong marathon sexual sessions that go on for hours and hours until all concerned are barely able to walk. These accounts have Skypeland males SN has invited to visit considering if they should get a Viagra or a Cialis prescription filled first.

AM is a unique lady from Maine. AM is very interested in boning, getting a put-in, porking, rolling in the hay, balling, knocking boots, doing the mattress mambo, screwing, getting some beef in her taco, humping, greasing a rod, stuffing her muffin, playing hide the salami, banging, waxing the pole, getting mounted, boinking, schtupping, bumping uglies, getting a hot poke, and so on, and makes no secret of it. AM has twice travelled to Morocco to engage in wanton licentious activities which she was glad to tell everyone about (I documented this in the blog article entitled "Four days at Mohammed International").

The shrill shrew J might at first glance seem to be a "paragon of propriety", completely virtuous and chaste and above reproach. That is certainly what she wants everyone else to believe. However, all is not necessarily what it appears. For example, although J has chastised other males for making advances, J purred and cooed when Mystery Man A told a Skypeland roomful that "J has really big tits. I have seen them, isn't that right J?" J did not object at all, and even flirted back. Maybe J is not quite as reserved, unsullied, wholesome and incorruptible as she wants people to think.

The lovely K from Austria also seems very sensible, untarnished and principled. K is approaching middle age, and is always very composed, restrained and rational. However, after some prodding, K revealed that she "caught" her husband at the beach. When he saw her in a bathing suit, he was hooked for good. And that was that. We all know what that means.

C from Sweden has one of the sweetest voices in Skypeland, and a beautiful accent. Reports from those who have seen C on webcam are that C is breathtakingly attractive; absolutely strikingly gorgeous. C is very careful to guard her privacy and presents a very proper image. However, C has complained to me that I make her sound excessively stiff, starchy, dour, dowdy and frumpy in this blog. I am sure that C has normal instincts, but is perhaps just more circumspect and prudent than many others. And although I have no direct reason to believe anything different, it appears that even the most ostensibly prudish of Skypeland females has a healthy affinity for carnal pleasures and she was even insulted at the slightest hint that she did not.

Clearly from the evidence revealed in Skypeland conversations, women have plenty of lascivious interests, no matter what the dictates of assorted social norms suggest. I remember when I was growing up being given advice by a wise old gentleman who told me, "All women are interested in sex. After all, their mothers did it..."

Addendum

* When I hear the phrase "sports down under", I think of the Australian spiny anteater, the echidna, which has a penis with four heads (although only two are fully developed). [6] [7] Some claim that while one penis is in use, the other rests for the next use. This kind of equipment might come in handy if you had to go visit SN from Missouri; it would be like getting a second wind.